i get so excited when i can’t remember the name of someone i knew in high school it’s like i’m one step closer to being fully cleansed
(Source: truckpussy)
You only truly grow as a woman when you realize that other girls are not, and never have been, your competition.
(Source: mysharona1987)
My therapist and I decided that from now on, when I’m thinking something negative about myself, I’m going to imagine that Donald Trump is saying it, because it’s really easy for me to just tell him to fuck off.
Example:
Trump: “Your thighs are fat.”
Me: “Fuck you and your fucking wall.”I think we’re onto something here.
this is probably the best coping skill I’ve ever seen and I am ten billion percent going to use it too
(Source: queerlyquinn)
I gave up a long, long time ago on the idea that a man would ever accept a woman in her wholeness. In her complete being. Not erased neither edited. That she wouldn’t have tip toe around the most fragile parts of her. That she could be herself sans apology. Doesn’t the thought ever hurt you. That you can’t be you with a man because he’s so saturated with images and sounds and ideals projected by media of the imaginary woman who doesn’t grow hair on her body, who is always ready for sex, who is an exceptional cook and a great gamer, who is ‘natural’ without being natural at all, who isn’t allowed an inch of imperfection. That your genitals constitute paper to be clipped according to the porn industry’s ideal size, that the darkness of your lips is repulsive, that the unfeminine about you is monstrous, that you are respected only because of your association with yet another man, that if you even let out a little squeak of protest he wouldn’t be able to tolerate you because he simply doesn’t want to know how to care for a real woman and the reality that makes her, her.
ur gonna die anyway so get that fucking tattoo ur parents and friends hate and eat whatever u want
my interests include putting blankets on sleeping animals just in case they’re cold
(Source: cosmicwizdom)
- Wake up and open your curtains. Your windows too.
- Drink some tea or coffee, whatever pleases you. Notice every sip.
- Have some fresh fruit and finish breakfast feeling full.
- Stand outside and feel the air. Cool or warm, it will make you feel real.
- Get some exercise. Yoga to soothe, running to breathe, lifting for strength.
- Take care of your body. Have a nice shower and pamper as much as you want afterward.
- If you’re going to work, remember you have the chance to make anyone’s day or to ruin it. Act accordingly.
- Weed out the bad language. It’s only creating tension in your body and mind. Kind words are infinitely more appreciated.
- Take some time each day to improve your mind. Keep reading that great book. Listen to an incredible piece of music. Practice an instrument or a skill. The progress is its own reward.
- Pictures will help you remember how wonderful life is. But spend less time on your phone and more time seeing the world face to face.
- Go to sleep knowing that you have done well. Tomorrow is there with room to become even better.
-Notes to myself on how to become a better person this summer.
I mean it. I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it. Girls aren’t pretty unless they’re wanted. Boys aren’t men unless they’re having sex with someone. People aren’t lovable until they’re dating someone.
But a relationship won’t always make you happy, and as wonderful as romance is, it isn’t the only love that exists. I have seen friendships that are deeper and more pure than couples who swear it’s forever - and yet the friendship is the one people ignore.
I have heard so often “nobody loves me” out of the mouths of people who are single. And it kills me because if you ask them: where are your parents, your teachers, your classmates, your pets - they say, yes, okay, but it doesn’t count. Of course it counts, love doesn’t diminish just because someone doesn’t want to have sex with you. In fact, doesn’t it sort of make that love more real that they want nothing - not even a date - out of you?
It is pretty to be in love. It’s magical, I’m sure. But it’s also wonderful to stop for ice cream in your prom dress with six other girls. It’s also wonderful to go visit the world with nothing but a bunch of buddies who are really excited about learning.
The problem is: we’ve made everything about “the one”. But maybe “the one” is just you, loving yourself, having fun, and being happy. Maybe instead of looking for our other halves, we should be piecing ourselves together.
Maybe I wasn’t born unfinished. Maybe I am the one who makes myself better."
No amount of great sex, great personality, great food, great looks or anything else will keep a man faithful if he doesn’t want to be.
So stop letting men manipulate you into thinking you have to achieve some level of godly womanhood to be worth their time.
i develop crushes on people for the weirdest reasons. like this guy sat next to me in class the other day, and he had really nice handwriting so I’m crushing on him. some other guy told me he was raised by a stay at home dad so I like him now. like???? i need to get a hold of myself
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